Open When we are in a really bad fight
All couples fight. It’s just something that happens. No matter how you avoid it, a fight will eventually make it’s way to the surface, whether it be something stupid or even something serious. So I made one of my open when letters about when we are in a fight. Just being myself, I have gotten into the habit of closing myself off- and I’m sure a lot of you can relate to it. Rather than screaming or arguing, I say nothing at all. Reason being, I will say stupid things I don’t mean and I will forever be asking for forgivness. Even though he will forgive me right away, I would feel so bad about it.
If we are in a really bad fight and I have said something stupid, I’m really sorry. I tend to do that a lot but just know how sorry I am, even if I won’t say it. Whatever I said, I didn’t mean it; I was just mad. Just give me a little time to think things over. If you’re really mad at me, please forgive me. Regardless of who is wrong or right, just tell me you love me, that you’re sorry, and that you just want to stop fighting already; then kiss me. I love you more than you could ever imagine. I’m sorry if I’m bipolar. And if I’m not talking to you, you know how I am.
I just don’t want to say anything I don’t mean. I’m not perfect; I say stupid things. I get mad easily over nothing. And I know you’re way slower to anger than I am and you’re a fixer. I’m the exact opposite. My mood swings more than a swing lol. I change my mind like I change my underwear, once a week. (I may or may not be kidding.) I’m sorry I don’t talk much when I am upset or mad. But no matter what, I bet you know one else can love you more than I love you. Now, can we please stop fighting?
Feel free to make your own version of what to write. The possibilites are endless. Just use this to give you an idea of what to write.
What else should I put in there?
I added some fishing hooks in this envelope (He loves going fishing) and said, “Out of all the fish in the sea, you’re the only one for me. Even when we fight….” I’m lame… I know. And I put some sour patch kids in the envelope and said, “Even though we are going through a Sour Patch, I still love you more than you know.”
If you are doing the flash drive thing with singing, feel free to play a song for him.
A few songs you can choose from are:
- Fall For You- Secondhand Serenade
- My Life Would Suck Without You- Kelly Clarkson
- Wish You Were Here- Avril Lavigne
- Back To December- Taylor Swift
- Goodbye- Miley Cyrus
Obviously, there are tons more. That’s just a short list
Thank you so much for reading! I hope these are helping you with these letters because I had no idea what to put in there.